Raquel S. PinderMay 26, 20207 minSEASON 1Why I've Stopped Calling Bad Choices, Mistakes.Accidentally taking the juice container from the refrigerator and pouring it into your coffee is a mistake. Adding baking powder to a...
Raquel S. PinderMay 22, 20207 minSEASON 1Social Distancing: Hands in the Air, it's a Stick-up (Part 2)Going outside your house these days without a mask can almost get you charged with indecent exposure. Everything is such a mood that we...
Raquel S. PinderMay 19, 20207 minSEASON 1Social Distancing: The New Flat Tummy Tea (Part 1)TMI Alert: If we knew how much waste was backed-up in these 32-22-32 bodies, we'd do a cleanse post-haste. I mean faster than Beyonce...
Raquel S. PinderMay 12, 20205 minSEASON 1....But That's What You Asked For. Why You Mad?Olivia Pope, cannot 'it's handled' your life to normalcy. Unfortunately, you can't swipe left on your problems to make them vanish, and...
Raquel S. PinderMay 12, 20206 minSEASON 1YOLO - You Obviously Lying or .... Nah?In 2011, I caught fire. Yes, I mean, I was going up in flames, while doing a rather typical everyday task. One that I had done at least...
Raquel S. PinderMay 5, 20205 minSEASON 1Your 'Feelings' Have a Name but It Ain't Judas! "What you talkin' bout Willis?" I'm so glad you asked. I use to think that my feelings betrayed me. I use to think when I needed them to...
Raquel S. PinderApr 28, 20204 minSEASON 1If the Roof is on Fire, of Course you Need Water, Silly!I know people of my pigmentation and churchgoers alike, may never agree, but hear me when I say this, "Therapy is NOT only for the person...
Raquel S. PinderApr 21, 20206 minSEASON 1Date, Break-up, Repeat - The Single Girl InsanityIf you Goggle the girl that held on too long, you'd probably find my photo. I'm not proud of it, but hey (shrugs shoulders) knowing is...
Raquel S. PinderApr 14, 20207 minSEASON 1All Relationships are NOT Created Equal!"Why I oughta kick that dirtbag square in his....." says every best friend, to her inconsolable gal-pal as she balls her eyes out over...
Raquel S. PinderApr 7, 20206 minSEASON 1Does Marriage Live up to the Hype?If you're reading this article in search of the answer to this question, sorry, you won't find it here. I'm single, what the heck do I...
Raquel S. PinderMar 31, 20205 minSEASON 1We Might be Concerned about the Wrong Edges!When it comes to a woman's hair, it is said to be her crown, her glory, the essence of her beauty. But honey, to be without edges is as...
Raquel S. PinderMar 24, 20206 minSEASON 1What if I could Order a Man like Coffee?"You want a tall, triple non-fat latte, half-caff, caramel drizzle, extra hot, extra shot, a' WHAT?" Ahh, the flow of those words is like...
Raquel S. PinderMar 17, 20207 minSEASON 1Your Life Ain't No Offering Pan!Touch your neighbour and say, "It's giving time!" (crickets). All my church folks know that the atmosphere can get really tight and...
Raquel S. PinderMar 10, 20206 minSEASON 1Why Your 'Mouth' May Not Be Ready for Marriage!We have at one time, or the other heard someone say, "I don't give two hoots what you say about me!" When I hear that, I automatically...
Raquel S. PinderMar 3, 20207 minSEASON 1It’s NOT Eve’s Fault Your Life is a Mess!"You wait til' I get to heaven, I ga' tell Eve bout her........!" Hey, you! Pique down, missy! Can we please, for the love of God, let...
Raquel S. PinderFeb 25, 20206 minSEASON 1Why I Can't Stand Boaz!If it isn't bad enough that I've yet to subscribe to my lifetime membership of cuffing season, I am well into my 30's and still out here...
Raquel S. PinderFeb 18, 20206 minSEASON 1Make 'Single-hood' Great, Again!I ain't calling no names, but 'someone' got the notion that home of the Star-Spangled Banner is no longer fit to be called 'great'!...